Can You Save My Marriage?

I’ve been married for a few weeks and haven’t slept since. My husband snores like you would not believe. I’m becoming grumpy. We had our first fight and I’m pretty sure it wouldn’t have happened if I weren’t so sleep deprived. My sister said her husband used to snore and her dentist stopped it. I’m not sure how a dentist can fix that, but I’m willing to try anything.

LeeAnne S. – Colorado

LeeAnne,

First, I’ll say congratulations on your marriage! Don’t worry about the fight. All couples fight.  The important thing is to keep remembering why you love one another.

If your husband is snoring, it’s possible the cause is sleep apnea.  It has to do with the muscles relaxing at the back of his throat. A dentist who treats sleep apnea can custom fit an oral device that will gently reposition his bite so the passageway is cleared, stopping the snoring.

On top of you getting some sleep, your husband will start feeling more energetic as well.  He won’t even realize it, but sleep apnea will interrupt his breathing and sleeping pattern over and over throughout the night.

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Can I Remove Porcelain Veneers?

I’ve had the same dentist since I was a little girl. I love the guy, but I’m afraid he really messed up my porcelain veneers. I was asked to be a speaker at a major convention and it was my big opportunity to shine and get investors for a project I’ve been working on. I mentioned it to my dentist because I was concerned about my smile and he said that he could get me fixed up with porcelain veneers. I let him do them and I really regret it now. They don’t look like they’re shaped right, for starters. They also don’t feel right. I keep catching my tongue on them when I talk and it has affected my speech. Lastly, the coloring is off. It looks like I have pieces of gum stuck to my front four teeth. I don’t want to hurt his feelings, but I really want to get them taken off and go back to my normal teeth. What’s the best way to approach this with my dentist?

Sincerely,

Lucia – California

Unfortunately, you can’t just remove porcelain veneers. Some of your tooth material was likely shaved. Without the porcelain veneers for cover, that leaves you exposed and susceptible to decay.

It sounds like your dentist is a great family dentist, but may not be the best cosmetic dentist. His heart was likely in the right place, but that doesn’t help your smile makeover.

The only real way to fix this is to have them re-done by a dentist with more artistic cosmetic skill. As a patient, it would be difficult for you to know which dentist is skilled in cosmetics and which isn’t. In your place, I’d suggest going to the mynewsmile.com website. They only recommend the best of the best. Put in your zip code and they’ll recommend some great dentists to give you a smile you won’t just be proud of, you’ll be thrilled with.

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